Lighthouse Respite Home

A short-term respite home for people with special needs 

Caregivers get a break while their loved one gets treated

When hectic times come knocking, caregivers might find themselves in need of a break. They may be welcoming a newborn into the family, celebrating a wedding, or just need a vacation. Whatever the reason, they need a place to leave their loved ones. Finding friends willing to take in a child or adult with significant needs can be so difficult — and this is exactly why the Lighthouse Respite Home was created.

This large, luxuriously appointed home is located in the beautiful town of Seagate, just a few blocks from the ocean. The guests feel like they are being treated to a special seaside retreat, while their caregivers are treated to a much-needed reprieve.

Who is eligible?

Participants must meet these criteria to apply for this service via Hamaspik of Kings County.

  • Live in NYC or Nassau County
  • Have an intellectual or
    developmental disability
  • Age 4+

You’ll be glad to know:

  • This spacious home has two fully stocked playrooms, nine large bedrooms, a secure, gated outdoor play area, and is fully childproof. It can accommodate 15-20 people.
  • The home is staffed by a lovely couple from the community who live in the house year-round. They are friendly and warm and make their guests feel comfortable.
  • Respite workers, known as DSPs (Direct Support Professionals), are brought in as needed and thoroughly vetted. Guests can bring along their own familiar DSP or a sibling if that will help them better acclimate.
  • Delicious homemade and catered meals are prepared as per the guests’ preferences and dietary needs.
  • Transportation is available from Boro Park and Williamsburg — both to and from the home. People can stay for a few days or up to a week if needed.

Respite home “mother” shares

Running the Lighthouse Respite Home is a true privilege for us, and we cherish every person who walks through our doors.  

Recently a family who has four children with special needs married off a child. They sent three of these children, all boys, to be with us for Shabbos.

As soon as they arrived, we welcomed them warmly. Although they are all nonverbal, their excitement was apparent — happy smiles, joyous laughter, and cheerful jumping spoke much louder than words.

Each boy had individual preferences and interests, and we made an effort to accommodate and delight each of them. One liked to read books, another disliked books, preferring toys. And we kept the third, who enjoyed being a part of the conversation, fully involved, asking him questions, and engaging him socially.

When the weather is nice, we take our guests for walks along the beach. We love to treat them to a real vacation experience.

The heart behind the service

Cheskel Fisher

Department Director
Director of Residential Services

“People were breaking down our doors for this. We’re so happy to provide a measure of peace of mind for these families.”

Interested in the
Lighthouse
Respite Home?

If you are OPWDD-approved, reach out and find out if you are eligible for this program. There’s a one time screening process and then you can schedule a stay when needed.

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