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Understanding Speech and Language Development

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From the moment a baby is born, they begin absorbing knowledge rapidly, learning by observing and interacting with the world around them. Understanding speech and language development is essential to recognizing how children acquire the ability to communicate, from cooing and babbling to forming words and full sentences as they grow.

Speech and language development overview

A baby’s first communication, the very first form of child language, is a primitive cry, which they quickly learn will get their needs met. But within months, babies begin to focus on their parents' speech and develop their language skills.  

In fact, children do the most learning during their first three years of life, which is a critical period for speech and language development. During this time, their brains soak up every sight and sound, developing at an astonishing pace. 

As a parent, you can help foster your child’s skills by creating a language-rich environment and monitoring your child’s language development. If you ever notice delays or have concerns, early support can make a significant difference in helping your child reach important speech and language milestones.

6 Stages of speech and language development

Below, we’ve outlined typical milestones to help you monitor your child’s progress, along with strategies to support their growth. While reviewing this language development chart, keep in mind that every baby is unique and acquires these skills at their own pace.

If you have a question about whether something is normal, talk to your child’s pediatrician.

Age Milestones Support Strategies
0-3 Months
  • Baby coos.
  • Baby reacts to loud sounds.
  • Baby responds to parent’s voice.
  • Talk and sing to your baby frequently.
  • Respond to your baby’s coos and babbles to encourage interaction.
4-6 Months
  • Baby looks in the direction of sounds.
  • Baby enjoys toys that make noise and music.
  • Baby starts babbling using consonant sounds, like “ba-ba-ba” or “da-da-da.”
  • Keep talking, playing, and singing!
  • Introduce toys that make sounds to stimulate interest.
7-12 Months
  • Baby turns and looks in the direction of sounds.
  • Baby responds to their name.
  • Baby understands basic words like “more,” “bye-bye,” “bottle” and may respond to simple commands like “no.”
  • Baby plays games like peek-a-boo.
  • Baby uses gestures (like pointing, reaching for “up” and shaking head) to communicate.
  • Baby babbles using long strings of consonants and vowels.
  • Many babies say their first word around the one-year mark.
  • Read to your baby using books with large, colorful pictures.
  • Label objects as you move about your day and encourage your baby to try out the sounds. (“This is a cup. Can you say cup?”)
1-2 Years
  • Baby (who’s not such a baby anymore!) continues to add words to their vocabulary, reaching approximately 50 words by 24 months.
  • Child can string together two-word sentences, like “Want more” or “Hold me.”
  • Child can point to some body parts, group familiar objects, and make animal sounds.
  • Child can respond to simple questions (such as “What’s that?”) and follow one-step directions (such as “Pick up the ball.”)
  • Listen actively and continue to engage with your child on their own level. Nod, smile, and ask questions to encourage them to keep talking.
  • Encourage naming objects and actions in daily routines.
  • Challenge your child with toys, tasks, and games that require some thinking or planning.
2-3 Years
  • Child can form three to four-word sentences and has a vocabulary of at least a hundred words.
  • Child can express themselves or label items as needed.
  • Child can answer simple questions and respond to two-step commands (such as “Pick up the ball and bring it here.”)
  • People who know your child can understand their pronunciation, even if it’s challenging at times.
  • Arrange playdates or group activities to provide opportunities for your child to practice their communication skills with other kids.
  • Continue reading and storytelling, asking your child questions about the stories as you go along.
3-4 Years
  • Child’s sentences become more complex, and they can tell stories with greater fluency.
  • Child can speak about ideas and feelings, in addition to making literal observations.
  • Child can recall past experiences and describe imaginary events.
  • Strangers can understand most of what your child says.
  • Encourage your child to talk about their day.
  • Enter your child’s world by engaging in pretend play and imaginary stories.
  • Continue expanding their vocabulary by reading, socializing, and singing together.

When to seek professional help

While every child develops at their own pace, consistently missing or significantly delaying speech and language milestones may signal the need for a professional evaluation. If you notice a sudden loss of hearing, speech, babbling, or social interaction at any age, it’s important to talk to your child’s pediatrician.

Your pediatrician may refer you to a speech-language pathologist or audiologist, who can assess your child’s speech and language development and create a tailored plan to support their progress. Early intervention is key. The earlier a challenge is identified, the greater the opportunity to support your child’s communication skills effectively.

Activities to encourage speech and language development

Supporting your child’s growth at home is one of the most impactful ways to strengthen their communication skills. These activities to encourage speech and language development are easy to implement in daily life and highly effective when practiced consistently.

  • Read together every day: Choose age-appropriate books and take time to point out pictures, name objects, and ask questions. Reading builds vocabulary, comprehension, and sound recognition.
  • Narrate your day: Talk through your activities as you go. Say things like, “I’m pouring the juice,” or “Let’s put on your red socks.” This constant input helps children link words to actions.
  • Sing songs and nursery rhymes: The rhythm and repetition in songs help children grasp language patterns. Hand motions add a fun, interactive layer to speech and language development.
  • Play pretend games: Pretend play helps children develop conversation skills, story structure, and vocabulary. Use dolls, animals, or household objects to build imaginative scenarios.
  • Repeat and expand: When your child says a word or phrase, respond by repeating it and adding more detail. For example, if your child says, “Car,” you can say, “Yes! A big blue car is going fast!”
  • Use visual aids and gestures: Pair spoken language with visual cues or hand motions. Pointing, nodding, or using simple signs reinforces understanding and helps bridge gaps in communication.
  • Practice turn-taking and conversation: Even young toddlers can practice back-and-forth “talking.” Pause after asking a question or making a statement and give your child time to respond.

These daily activities to encourage speech and language development can make a big difference in how children absorb and use language over time. Try to keep things fun and low-pressure. Children learn best when they feel relaxed and engaged.

Final thoughts

Understanding speech and language development is one of the best ways to support your child’s growth and confidence. From recognizing milestones to practicing speech-building activities at home, you play a vital role in their journey.

If you ever feel uncertain about your child’s progress or need professional guidance, Hamaspik is here to help. Our caring specialists can assist with evaluations, resources, and support tailored to your child’s needs. Contact us today to see how we can support you.

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Auditory Sensitivity

My child is sensitive to loud noises
(e.g., sirens, vacuum cleaner).

My child seeks out specific sounds or types of music and appears calmer when listening to them.

Tactile Sensitivity

My child is irritated by certain fabrics or tags in clothing.

My child seems indifferent to sensations that are usually painful or to extreme temperatures.

Visual Sensitivity

My child is sensitive to bright or flashing lights.

My child tends to avoid eye contact.

Taste/Smell Sensitivity

My child constantly prefers bland foods and rejects foods with strong flavors or spices.

My child seeks out strong or unusual smells, such as sniffing food or objects.

Proprioceptive Sensitivity

My child prefers tight hugs or being wrapped in a blanket.

My child is unaware of body position in space (e.g., often bumps into things).

Social Sensitivity

My child becomes anxious or distressed in crowded spaces.

My child is hesitant or resistant to climbing or balancing activities (e.g., jungle gyms, see-saws).

Movement Sensitivity

My child dislikes fast or spinning movements

Vestibular Sensitivity

My child becomes anxious or distressed in crowded spaces.

My child is hesitant or resistant to climbing or balancing activities (e.g., jungle gyms, see-saws).

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Your Child’s Score is

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  • 16-30

    Moderate Sensory Sensitivity

  • 31-45

    High Sensory Sensitivity

  • 46-60

    Very High Sensory Sensitivity

0-15: Low Sensory Sensitivity

  • Interpretation: Your child exhibits low levels of sensory sensitivity, usually falling within the typical developmental range.
  • Recommendation: Generally not  a cause for concern. If you have specific worries or notice a sudden change in behavior, consult a healthcare professional for a comprehensive evaluation.
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    Low Sensory Sensitivity

  • 16-30

    Moderate Sensory Sensitivity

  • 31-45

    High Sensory Sensitivity

  • 46-60

    Very High Sensory Sensitivity

16-30: Moderate Sensory Sensitivity

  • Interpretation: Your child displays moderate sensory sensitivity, which may warrant intervention.
  • Recommendation: Consider sensory-friendly activities, sensory sensitive toys, or sensory sensitive clothing like noise-canceling headphones and weighted blankets to improve comfort. If symptoms persist, consult health care professionals.
  • 0-15

    Low Sensory Sensitivity

  • 16-30

    Moderate Sensory Sensitivity

  • 31-45

    High Sensory Sensitivity

  • 46-60

    Very High Sensory Sensitivity

31-45: High Sensory Sensitivity

  • Interpretation: Your child has higher than average sensory sensitivity that may interfere with daily functioning.
  • Recommendation: Seek a detailed evaluation by health care professionals for sensory integration therapy options and potential environmental modifications.
  • 0-15

    Low Sensory Sensitivity

  • 16-30

    Moderate Sensory Sensitivity

  • 31-45

    High Sensory Sensitivity

  • 46-60

    Very High Sensory Sensitivity

46-60: Very High Sensory Sensitivity

  • Interpretation: Your child demonstrates high levels of sensory sensitivity that could significantly interfere with daily life.
  • Recommendation: If your child displays this level of sensory sensitivity, it’s highly recommended that you consult with a health care professional for a multi-disciplinary assessment. You will probably be directed towards early intervention programs and specialized support.

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